Before you kiss the frog, let’s talk. Let’s talk about choices that make your future healthier. Walk with me through a biblically based decision tree and not rely on aroused feelings and sensations that can lead us astray.

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Come along with me through discussion of characteristics of churches and pastors that tend to operate this way under the threat of misconduct exposure. Let’s look at common techniques of leadership during the cover-up process.

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This is the true story of a church in America's Bible Belt, the First Christian Church in Florissant, Missouri--a church with a meager beginning and record of steady growth for forty-nine years until the weight of sexual abuse charges against a youth minister left it, and its congregation, broken. This is a case history and analysis of those events.  This is for the victims.

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Prayer for Today

God over the hosts of heaven and earth, you are the God Most High. You are Yahweh. There is no one like you. What do you require of us, but to do justice, love kindness and to walk humbly with you? You call us to higher ground. You call us to grace, patience and unity….

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Today is a beautiful day, because “the Lord lifts up the humble; he casts the wicked to the ground.” (Psalm 147: 6 ESV) Attributes of God #joyinverse #blessedthisdayandeveryday

Prayer for Today

Heavenly Father, I looked up the word, ‘advocate’ in my Vines Dictionary, and guess where it took me…well, you already know…it took me to ‘comforter.’ “Parakletos: called to one’s side, i.e., to one’s aid.” It brought me to the Holy Spirit, whom you sent as comforter and guide, educator and advocate. It brought me to…

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Today is a beautiful day, because God “determines the number of the stars: he gives to all of them their names.” (Psalm 147:4 ESV) Attributes of God #joyinverse #blessedthisdayandeveryday

Prayer for Today

Holy God, your Word speaks truth and encouragement. I lean on Paul’s inspired prayer for seeking inner strength through faith in Christ and the working of the Holy Spirit. “For this reason I bow my knees before the Father, from whom every family in heaven and on earth is named, that according to the riches…

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Today is a beautiful day, because God “heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” (Psalm 147:3 ESV) Attributes of God #joyinverse #blessedthisdayandeveryday

Prayer for Today

Abba, Father, may I be open with you for just a few? I love that you named me Joy, and I disdain that you named me Joy. How does that dichotomy work? It is both a blessing and a difficulty that you named me for stubborn recognition of your joy within me. Lord, you tell…

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Today is a beautiful day, because “the Lord loves the righteous.” (Psalm 146: 8b ESV) Attributes of God #joyinverse #blessedthisdayandeveryday

Prayer for Today

Tempus fugit, Father. Irretrievably, time flies. Hours build to days and days to weeks, and my to do list is as long as ever. Mom tried to warn me. I can’t get back the wasted hours. The older I get, the faster the globe seems to spin. Every day dawns, and before I know it,…

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Today is a beautiful day, because God “lifts up those who are bowed down.” (Psalm 146: 8b) Attributes of God #joyinverse #blessedthisdayandeveryday