Thank you on behalf of myself and Safe Connections for your support and encouragement during the writing phase, publication phase and sales phase of this book. I sent another check to Safe Connections. Please help increase the influence of this piece by sharing it. The intention of this book is to highlight the plight of … Read more
The intention of this book is to highlight the plight of abuse victims. I ask for your support for this project. I ask for your support of Safe Connections. If you buy the book, the royalties go to Safe Connections. You may want to contribute directly to Safe Connections. Either way, you do something positive … Read more
After multiple continuances, the next court date in this case is in September, 2022. The wheels of the courts turn slowly. The outcome may require a second edition to tell the end of this tragic story. If you are interested, you can follow the progress of future filings in the case by signing up on … Read more
To continue with the update on the SLCC character in the saga of First Christian Church in Florissant, the fine and the eventual demise of St. Louis Christian College came unexpectedly. It saddens me not to see the iconic billboard announcing its location. I drove past that sign along I270 for about thirty years. I’ve … Read more
Action and inaction create consequence. The Department of Education did not take lightly the failure of St. Louis Christian College to establish required standards and codes. Were you a student at SLCC at the time? Did you notice the violations? Do you have an update? I continue to ask. From the book: “Six years have … Read more
I’m thinking of Ephesians 5:11 today in preparing this post. “Take no part in the unfruitful works of darkness, but instead expose them.” Can we shine light on the churches and church leaders who minimize and re-victimize the abused? Is it possible to make your church safer by learning to spot and report predatory behavior? … Read more
I’m grateful to Jake McDonnell for the wisdom in his open letter to FCCF and SLCC. From the book: “How does a leader react when they know people have been victimized? Gospel Approach: Leaders react with compassion, honesty, and love. As Jesus did and does, they seek out those who are hurting and call forward … Read more
We sort out the evidence as we see it, but in the end we are culpable to choose the pastor under whose teaching we sit. I didn’t think too much of it until this experience. I’ve learned to review the Scriptural requirements of church leaders. More importantly, I’ve learned the impact of how those Scriptural … Read more
Of all possibilities for a pastor/minister to step up and shepherd his flock, this was it for FCCF. It didn’t happen. The senior minister caved under the weight of his image and the desire for numbers of congregants. He could have opted for facilitating healing for the victims. My research pointed out one contact with … Read more
I base my conclusion on my experience, along with documents, comments and interviews I have reviewed. You are welcome to form your own informed opinion. “My personal opinion from having gone through this experience is multidimensional. Steve Wingfield failed: • Individual members of his church, people who had contributed tithes and offerings since before he … Read more